Parenting is more than duty: Swami Bhoomananda Tirtha.

A DAY IN ASHRAM

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Thursday 11, Jul 2024, 05:30.

Parenting is more than duty:  

Swami Bhoomananda Tirtha.

Narayanasrama Tapovanam

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Swami Bhoomananda Tirtha answers questions on parenting and dutyI love my children, but there are times when I really feel that parenting is a huge burden.Finding a balance between home and work can be so exasperating How do I overcome this?While to some extent, desire and its consequent burden are part of household life, the fact remains that this plight robs away the very purpose and fruition of the householder. The question is: Do you like such a plight? If you do not, the straight answer is:.be free of undue desire and the burden it fetches.

Learn to live in peaceful harmony with yourself.Desire of any nature always constricts the mind. Such constriction prevents the mind to express itself fully, healthily, and harmoniously Understand this mental truth and always think of avoiding desires and the consequent torments In reality, it is not desire, but something else far higher that should verily work in the human The truth about it will be known only through right exposure and enlightenmentIt’s a pleasure to have a child With the.child and the consequent involvement, if the very objective of happiness is adversely affected, isn’t there something wrong in our attitude? And then, does not the situation call for re-evaluation? With the childbirth, you have assumed a new status —one of the Creator.

This too is a great and complex role Are you aware of this great role? Or is it that you are not able to rise to its lofty level in your mind, intelligence and ego? Will you examine your inner framework and find out where it stands?Your spiritual practices, in fact, should have been intensified with your new status For, by that alone, you can detect the deficiencies and strive to redress them Think whether this is so or notOne important spiritual discipline is: Do not do what you like Learn to.do what is necessary.

Likewise, do not always try to avoid what you dislike That may not be possible You want to be at home, but that is not possible You do not like to be in office; that, too, is impossible What then? Learn to accept what you dislikeThis means your effort must be to cultivate refinement and loftiness whereby the mind will always rise above its likes and dislikesDevelop a broad and creative platform to be able to do whatever is necessary and desirableI have always thought it my duty to take care of.my family and to do justice to my work responsibilities at office.

Sometimes, though, the pressure can be overpowering How do I find a balance?I often hear people say: “It is my duty to do this; it is my duty to do that” Some also speak in the same strain when those about whom they speak are their own dear and near ones — wife, husband, children, and parentsWhat is there to be termed as duty when life’s basic and natural traits and impulses are concerned? No one speaks of a duty in the matter of breathing, of eating and drinking The existence of the.body necessitates all these functions.

In the same manner, the existence of the mind and the inner being of ours brings in their wake a number of similar needs and urges To love her child is not a ‘duty’ of the mother To be devoted and loving towards one’s spouse is much less a dutyEqually so, to be regarding one’s own parents and elders in general cannot be termed a ‘duty’ A normal human mind, which thinks and acts sensibly, cannot but express all this It is as natural and irresistible a process of the mind as are.breathing, eating and drinking.

If the concept of ‘duty’ has to be courted in order to give vent to these natural, primary, and irresistible expressions, it is deplorableWhat is meant by ‘duty’, of which we often make mention? You begin to think of duty only when what you propose to do does not have an innate and ready acceptance in your mind, when your being is not heartily out to do it Any thought of duty implies, in other words, the working of two distinct factors, which are opposite to each other First comes the.basic resistance or unwillingness which the mind raises.

In order to overcome this resistance, you then try to bring in the concept of duty, holding it as a worthy ideal to be pursued Thinking of the ideal, you then proceed to act with a view to realise it, not anything else It is, therefore, more a sense of compulsion, of obligation, that makes you do what you do, and not the natural outpouring of your own free and innocent nature If you ask me, this is far from what is good, what is pleasant, what is desirable and what is really expected of a wise person.

The child is always a full answer to every question of ours Look at the child and see how it acts It does not have any sense of duty or compulsion Its mind is incapable of it Yet he does manifest love to the mother, to the father, to others near and dear to him In so loving, the child is quite lavish He does so with all freedom and fullness Despite your growth, maturity and wisdom, if you are not able to do what even a little child in his state of rudimentariness does consistently, that would be a travest

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Present CASTE SYSTEM SUCH AS SC, ST, OBC, ADIVASI, TRIBALS AND COUNTLESS NUMBERS IN VARIOUS NAMES ARE POLITICAL PARTIES CREATION FOR VOTE BANK POLITICS) NOTHING TODO WITH VARNASHRAMAM EXPLAINED BY OUR ANCIENT TEXTS. 

1. You are following a wrong path even in your studies and educational career; and neither your parents, your government, your society nor your friends are good enough or intelligent enough to tell you what your problems are going to be when you become an adult!

2.  "Here comes the need our ancient practice. You may call it Sanatana Dharmam."

3. Where all people of this Nation worshipped NATURE, PANCHA BHUDHAMS (FIRE,WIND, WATER, BRAHMAM, EARTH)

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3.THIS IS NOT HAPPENING IN THE MUSLIM WORLD

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THEIR POISONOUS MADRASA EDUCATION, IS FUNDING HATRED, VIOLENCE, MENTAL DISTURBANCE, CONVERSIONS, CREATING TROUBLES AMONG THEMSELVES AND OTHER COUNTRIES!!

THEY NEVER JOIN THE MAINSTREAM CITIZENS, THEY NEVER LOVE THE NATION WHERE THEY LIVE, RECEIVE MAINSTREAM BENEFITS, LIVE AS SEPARATISTS, AND CROOKED THOUGHTS A HINDRECE TO THE NATION THEY LIVE.

''They never say Motherland where they live and sustained."

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HERE IN BHARATHAM THE MAJORITY OF MUSLIMS EXCEPT VERY FEW GOOD NATION LOVERS, ARE NARROW MINDED POISONOUS UNCULTURED BRUTES, NO GRATITUDE TO THIS HOLY NATION, BECOME ASURAS AND FOLLOW DEMONIC ACTIVITIES TO DAMAGE THE UPNISHADIC CULTURE OF BHARATHAM

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3.1 Christianity violates all disciplines, by religious conversions and Church, cum evangelists, using the money, spreading lies, cheat the public all over the world. 

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4. "Nature can suddenly burst a bomb on the head of all humanity, which she has been keeping secretly tucked under the arm to burst any time. The whole Earth can shake, and the matter ends there in one second!!" - Swami Vivekananda

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4.1 "ONE NATION AND ONE PEOPLE IS THE MANTRAM ( just as differerant flowers on a string) TO MODERN VIKSIT BHARAT.

##MINORITIES AND MAJORITY DIVISION TO DIVIDE PEOPLE FOR VOTBANK POLITICS

5. THE BREAKING INDIA FORCES CONGRESS AND COMMUNISTS ALONG WITH ALL REGIONAL POLITICAL PARTIES USE DEMONIC POLITICS; VOTE BANK POLITICS WITH MUSLIMS AND CHRISTIANS ASSOCIATED WITH ABOVE SAID POLITICAL COMBINATIONS TO DESTROY THIS HOLY NATION.

6.TO STOP THESE EVIL MOB IN THE PRESENT DAY, ONLY WAY TO IT BE RIGHTEOUS, TRUE TO ONE NATION AND ONE PEOPLE PRINCIPLE. 

7. TODAY IN KERALA AS WELL AS OTHER PARTS OF THIS HOLY NATION, WHERE GREAT BRAHMA RISHIS, MAHARISHIS TOOK BIRTH AND GAVE US GREAT TEXTS, FOLLOWED BY GREAT ACHARYA SRI SWAMI ADI SANKARACHARYA AND MANY MORE BORN AND SUCCEEDED IN ESTABLISHING A STRONG SANATANA DHARMAM THROUGH OUT BHARATHAM; BUT THE PRESENT POLITICAL SYSTEM NOT PREPARED TO FOLLOW THEIR TEXTS AND SERVE THIS NATION, NEED TO CHANGE THIS TENDENCY BY RENAISSANCE. 

8.POLITICS IS SCIENCE: 

BUT THE SO-CALLED POLITICIANS IN DEMOCRACY ARE IDIOTS, UNFIT,  AND DEMONIC.  USE POLITCS TO PERSONAL GAINS AT THE COST OF NATION AND HER PEOPLE.

WATCH OUR LOK SABHA AND RAJYA SABHA PROCEEDURES : THE OPPOSITION LEAD BY CONGRESS HOOLIGANISM AND INTERETIONS ANDTHIS INDISCIPLINE BY MEMBERS UNDESIRABLE. FROM2014 TO THE PRESENT, DAY PM AND HIS TEAM BHARAT MANAGEMENT REMARKABLE.

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### Role of Parents and Teachers in a Child's life:

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1.School, teachers and parents play vital role in holistic, and the teacher is the second. Both have an immense contribution and responsibility in shaping child’s personality.

2.Role of parents: Parents are the child’s first role model. Children behave, react and imitate same as their parents. Parents play important role in encouraging and motivating their kids to learn. Good parental support helps child to be positive, healthy and good life long learner. Children acquire skills at the parent and teacher is a real secret of child’s happy learn very early stage of their life if the parents are responsive and development of the child. Parents are the first mentor of the child understanding

3.Teacher-Parent Relationship: Trust and mutual understanding between. Support and Cooperativeness from parents towards teacher helps a lot to connect, understand and work towards child. Remarkable positive change is seen in a child if the parents and teacher understand and work hand in hand. A good parent teacher relationship leads child to be positive towards attending school.

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##### National Code of Conduct for The Citizens of Holy Bharatham : Swami Sivananda.

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1. Patriotism: Our Motherland should be our first and highest consideration. Welfare of the nation is our own welfare. Therefore, let us willingly be ready to offer up even our own life for our country. Let us inculcate in our children and members of our family love for our country, the spirit of patriotism and service to our country and our fellow citizens.

2. Duty: Our first and foremost duty is to God and to Righteousness. Leading a righteous life is the best and most valuable service of our Nation.

3. Character: Character is the greatest wealth. A pure, incorruptible citizen is the greatest asset of our Nation. This is vital and indispensable. Therefore, good character is to be given top priority value; upon this depends on our nation’s welfare and its future stability.

4. Health: Health is the basis of success. Health is wealth. Next to character, it is the greatest national asset. As citizens, building up character and safeguarding health, should be our primary duty to the Nation.

5. Virtue: Let us join hand and eradicate the evils of gambling, liquor-drinking, drug-taking, tobacco-smoking and betel-chewing. Let us eradicate the evils of bribery, corruption, selfishness, immorality, dishonesty and misconduct. Disloyalty to our Nation is crime and unpardonable sin.

6. Public Property: O Citizen! We are custodian of public property. Let us not spoil, misuse, steal or destroy National property. Let us preserve it with love and care. Let us keep our country neat and clean. This is your sacred duty.

7. One Family: All our citizen are brethren. Let us feel this fraternity. Let us all love each other and one another and be united because, we are one family.

8. Religion: We must have equal reverence for all religions, creeds and faiths. Let us love as our own brother the followers of our faiths. Let us treat others as we wish to be treated by them.

9.Non-violence: At all costs avoid every type of violence and hatred for, this is a blot on the fair name of the Nation. It is soul-killing and cause great harm to our country’s welfare and development. It is totally opposed to our Nation’s ideal.

10. Economy: Let us adopt simple living and high thinking. Let us not be extravagant. Let us avoid waste. Let us practice frugality. Let us share what we have with our less fortunate fellow citizens. This is National virtue that our India needs today.

11. Law: Let us respect the rule of law and uphold social justice. In this lies the guarantee of our welfare and orderly progress towards better India.

12. Ahimsa: Non-injury is our highest virtue (Ahimsa Paramo Dharmah). Compassion is a divine quality. Protection of animals is our sacred duty. This is India’s special teaching. Let us be compassionate towards all creatures. Thus, be a true Indian. Try to become an embodiment of kindness compassion and goodness in your everyday life.

13. Ecology: Man, and Nature are inseparable. Man, and his natural environment are inter-related and mutually interdependent. Everything in Nature contributes to our protection and nourishment. Let us, therefore, protect our natural environment. Helping in maintaining the ecological balance is our duty. It is indispensable for our safe living and highest welfare. Polluting of public places and polluting of air and water of the country is a national crime. We must make amends of our past lapses.

14. Unity: The more united the people of a country, the greater is their ability to withstand all obstacles and dangers. United we stand, divided we fall. This is particularly true about today’s India. Therefore, let us live in close harmony and loving goodwill with all our countrymen. Love of our country means love of our countrymen. This is the most invaluable service a Citizen of India, can offer to our Motherland.

15. Education: The process of education should incorporate within it the imparting of the basic knowledge of India’s great culture, its lofty ideals and noble values and principles of living. Our education has to be oriented for enriching and enhancing the quality of life of our youth and students.

##THUS, SHINE AS A TRUE CITIZEN AND SERVE YOUR COUNTRY BEST, BY THE VERY MANNER OF YOUR LIFE AND CONDUCT.   

### Do not follow, Do not MAKE ROLE MODEL  politicians ( DEMONS IN I.N.D.I.A ALLIANCE ANT KERALA DIRTY POLITICIANS - ALL ARE DECOITS OF PEOPLE MONEY AND DANGEROUS TO SOCITEY)

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###OPINION: PEOPLE OF BHARATHAM POSITIVE:

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1. SANATANA DHARMA, OTHERWISE KNOWN AS HINDUISM IS ETERNAL, WHOLE UNIVERSE IS EXISTING IN THIS TRUTH

2.  EVER EXISTING

3.  THERE IS NO SPACE FOR ADHARMA

4. ALL DEMONIC ELEMENTS DEMOLISHED BY DHARMA

5. SO, NO QUESTION EVIL ASURIC DEMONIC FRAGMENT'S BARKING, THEY WILL BE   ULTIMATELY BURNED AND DESTROYED BY NATURE.

6. PURE CONSCIOUSNESS IS DIVINE AND SUPREME, ALL OTHERS MEANINGLESS

7. NATURE IS ABOVE ALL, EVER EXISTING, ALL OTHERS MEANINGLESS.

8. THE CONTENT OF SO-CALLED HOLY BOOK IS NO HOLY AT ALL, AS IT PREACHES HATRED AND DESTRUCTION OF OTHER MANKIND, RELIGIOUS CONVERSIONS AND LIES OF UNCIVILIZED MATERIALS

9. CHRISTIANITY IS EQUALLY DEMONSTRATED CRUELTY, THE SO-CALLED HOLY BOOK FULL OF LIES

10. BOTH ARE NOT RELIGIONS BUT SAMPRADAYA (ILLITERATE MAN MADE, NOT BASED ON DHARMA

11. THE CULTURE OF BHARATHAM BASED ON UPANISHADS AND FULL OF  REALISATION TEXTS ARE PRODUCED BY GREAT RISHIS OF BHARATHAM

12. IN THIS MATERIALISTIC DESTRUCTIVE MINDED UNIVERSE, NO RELIGIONS COMPARABLE OR ABOVE SANATANA DHARMA OF BHARATHAM.

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OPINION: 

1. Congress, a donkey party, it's so called daydreaming stupid leader Rahul Vinci, Rahul Gandi, frequent visit to foreign countries, to abuse PM of this Nation, and Sanatana Dharma -exceeded all limits this time, his party and his family to be condemned, and kicked away from politics, people should awake and realise the danger.

2. All highly corrupted political parties are fall in in a funny heading (I.N.D.I.A.), PREPARED TO DEFEAT SRI MODIJI AND BJP IN 2024 ELECTION!!!???

3.These so-called leaders are failed in their own states and could not provide good governance, followed by unrest in their states.

4. The communists next donkey group, latest stunt of America visit and the comedy programmed namely Kerala Sabha!? these buggers destroyed Kerala in all and joining with radical Islam soon they will be eliminated, people of Kerala get up from donkey thoughts, otherwise Kerala shrink to extinct in all way.

5. The speaker of Kerala assembly unnecessarily abuses Hinduism and supported by cpm party head, wonder these demons do not realise their faults, need a lesson to know the strength of DHARMA.

6. "UDF & LDF BOTH DEPEND ON MUSLIMS & CHRISTIANS VOTE BANKS BETRYED THE AGE-OLD VALUES OF HOLY LAND.

"BOTH ALLIANCE PARTIES NEGLECTED THE GREATNESS OF SRI ADI SANKARACHARYA, AND UNIVERSITY ON SWAMIJI'S NAME HYJACKED BY COMMUNISTS AND DEFAME THE KERALA AGE OLD TRADTIONS."

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NOTE:

1. POLITICIANS (THOSE IGNORANT AND DEMONIC NATURED) ARE NOT THE AUTHORITY TO OPEN THEIR UGLY FOUL MOUTH AND UTTER NONSENSE UPON SANATHANA DHARMAM.

2. THE NONSENSE COMMENDY ALLIANCE ARE NOT THE AUTHORITY ON SANATHA DHARAMAM.

3. DK, DMK. AIADMKA AND ALL NONSENSE POLITICIANS BEWARE YOU WILL BE AUTOMATICALLY WASHED OUT SOON.

4. COMMUNISTS AND CONGRESS ARE THE ENEMY TO MANKIND DESTROY THEM.

5.ALL SANATHANA DHARAMAM FOLLOWERS (WHICH EVER YOUR POLITICAL INTEREST BE: YOUR POLITICAL MINDSET) TAKE An OATH THAT YOU STAND AGAINST ALL EVIL MINDSET AGAINST SANATHANA DHARMAM!!!

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######6. CRUSH THE ANTI NATIONAL ELEMENTS SUCH AS CONGRESS, COMMUNISTS, LEFT LIBERALS, URBAN NAXALS, TAMILNADU REGIONAL ANTI NATIONAL CUM ANTI SOCIAL POLITICAL PARTIES (DK, DMK, AIADMK, ALL SILLY SELF-APPOINTED CASTE GROUPS), NEVER ALLOW THESE BUGGERS RAISE THER VOICE/HEADS. CRUSH THEM UNDER YOUR FEET.

#######7. THE PRESENT CASTE SYSTEM IS MAN MADE (NEHRUVIAN ERA IDEA OF DIVIDING HINDUS INTO COUNTLESS MANY HEADDINGS AND HOLD THEM FOR FREE BENEFITS SO THAT COLONIAL DIVIDE AND RULE POLICY SINCE

 INDEPENDENCE, TILL NOW) WONDER STILL THEY ARE KEPT AWAY FROM HINDUISM) THIS IS NOT RELATED TO DHARMA" POLITICIANS ARE IDIOTS WHO TALK NONSENSE WITHOUT KNOWING THE SUBSTANCE, REGARDING VARNA: IT IS ABOUT GUNA AND PROFESSION RELATED, DIRTY POLITICANS TWISTS KNOWINGLY, BURN THESE WEEDS FROM THE SOCIETY URGENT NEED OF THE PRESENT.

########8. VOTE BANK POLITICS OF THE POLITICAL PARTIES OF BHARATHAM, MADE THEM ABUSE SANATANA DHARMA FOLLOWERS (HINDUS) AND APPEASE MUSLIMS AND CHRISTIANS, SOTHE FAMILY POLITICS FLOURISHING, AT WILL AND WISH, HENCE HINDUS WAKEUP AND FIGHT AGAINST THIS TREACHERY AND DEFEAT ALL THESE DEMONS OF POLITICS.

#########9 "Udhayanidhi’s rant comparing Hindus with malarial mosquitoes and Covid virus could have easily gone without the kind of outrage we are seeing today. Such Hindu-hate has been normalised in Tamil Nadu, a state which has seen some of the greatest Hindu kingdoms like the Cholas, Pallavas and Parantakas."

{ PSE WATCH PARLIAMENT PROCEEDINGS: THE DISCUSSIONS OF OPPOSITION RUBBISH, NONSENSE ELEMENTS SHOUT AND IRRESPONSIBLE SPEECHES, NONE SEEMED GOOD, OR NATION LOVERS IN OPPOSTION BENCHES}

##########10 "But the massive outpouring of public anger on media and social media perhaps points to a silent change afoot in Tamil Nadu. A revival of Sanatan Dharma and politics around it is slowly taking shape under BJP’s young leader K Annamalai. Santana Dharma has been in Tamil Nadu for as long as it existed in the rest of India, tracing back to the Vedic times. It is not possible to keep that fountainhead of Sanatan Dharma muted forever with the rock of Dravidianism….”

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I.N.D.I.A. THE ALLIANCE OF MONKEY GROUP 26 POLITICAL PARTIES (MAJOR JUNK REGIONAL DYNASTY/FAMILY RULERS OF STATES) -"PUSHING CASTE CENSUS- TO SPIT VOTES AND PLAY VOTE BANK POLITICS"

BEWARE OF THIS: DO NOT EVEN TO GIVE A CHANCE TO RULE: IT WILL BE HANDING OVER GARLAND (OUR DIVERSITY OUR PEPLE TO THESE MENTALLY UNBALACED IDIOTS)

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OPINION: 

NEEDS OF THE PRESENT:

1. #ABOLISH COUNTLESS NUMBER OF MAN-MADE CASTES AND THIS SYSTEM USED AS A TOOL FOR POLITICS BY I.N.D, I.A. ALLIANCE SHORT CUT TO THE DOOR OF POWER.

2.# FOLLOW THE SRIMAD BHAGAVAD GITA AND LORD KRISHNA BHAGWAN SAID VARNSRAMAM WHICH PROVIDE THE PERSON A CHANCE HIS/HER OWN MAKING!

3.#HERE SUDRA CAN UPLIFT HIM/HERSELF TO FIRST CATEGORY BRAHMANA.!!

4.#AND ANYONE WISH TO CHANGE HIS/HER PROFESSION CAN EITHER GO UP OR DOWN!!!

5.#THUS A FREEDOM AND MAKE THEIR INTERESTD CHOICE AND MAKING THEMSELVES!!!!

6#THIS WAY POLITICIANS MISUSE AND MISREPRESENTATION, VOTE BANK POLITICS, AND ANTI PEOPLE ANTI NATION MINDSET CAN BE PREVENTED!!!!!

7.DK, DMK, AIADMK AND NUMBER CASTE BASED POLITICAL PARTIES OF TAMILNADU, AND LIKE STATES POWER GREEDY CORRUPTED POLITICANS AND PARTIES, CAN BE ERADCATED AS WE ERADCATE DENGU, MALERIA ETC, SO THAT UDAYANIDHI LIKES WILL NOT UTTER FOOLISH STATEMENTS ON SANATANA DHARMAM.

8. PM MODI JI SAID THAT POVERTY LINE IS UPLIFTED TO MIDDLE CLASS LARGR NUMBER OF PEOPLE BENEFITTED, BUT NOW THOSE ENJOYING THE BENEFITS SHOULD BE OUT OF BENEFICIARY OF POOR CLASS THRMSELVES.

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NOTE: LATEST ATTEMPT: NORTH-SOUTH 

DK, DMK, AIADMK, ++++CASTE BASED FAMILY DYNASTY TAMIL NADU POLITICS WHEN THE CASTE ATTEMPT FAILED, NEW THEORY OF NORTH SOUTH DIVIDE POLITICS:

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WARNING:

1. KICK THESE TYPES OF POLITICAL PARTIES OUT OF THE POLITIC

2. DESTROY THE DK, DMK, AIADMK AND SILLY CASTE BASED OF POLITICAL PARTIES.

3.THESE POWER HUNGRY, CORRUPTED PEOPLE NOT FIT IN THE SOCIETY, ERADICATE THEM AS WE DO WITH DENGU AND MALERIA.

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JAI HIND

JAI BHARATHAM

VANDHE MADHARAM

BHARAT MATHA KI JAI.

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